Im torn between 2 guys i need help?

i have 2 girls and i live with my babydaddy but we havent been working out too well...he wants to control me and he just doesnt understand the need of me wanting to go out with my friends...iv been all his for 7 years with ups and downs of course....and i met this guy who im falling for but he is many female friends and we talk everyday he has so many good things about him that my man lacks in some ways....i have never truely loved my babydaddy but i do have so much love for him which is a bit different....and i dont know if im falling for this guy bc he is a man i would love to be with for how he is and what he has OR bc he is someone new in my life....and my relationship isnt so great at the moment....i dont easly fall for some one but he is so perfect well 99%...and my BD he tries his best to make me happy but i just dont love him how i should and he has a few turn offs that doesnt help the situation......how do i know what my true feelings are??wat do i have to do ???in what way should i think?im so confused